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Instilling Discipline in Children: 3 Keys to Raising Self-Reliant Kids
- Theron Feidt & Mark Cardone
- 7 minutes ago
- 2 min read
In This Episode:
Discipline isn't about punishment; it's about teaching children positive habits and self-reliance out of love. In this episode of the Achieve Results NOW! podcast, hosts Mark Cardone and Theron Feidt share three key action items to help parents and guardians raise well-adjusted, successful children. Drawing on their decades of experience working with kids, they emphasize that these principles are not only for parents but also for anyone in a leadership role.
Action Item 1: Establish Clear Expectations and Consistent Routines
Children thrive on structure. The hosts explain that a routine is like a roadmap that provides security and reduces resistance. They encourage parents to create a visual schedule for kids, making expectations clear and manageable. This is especially effective when tasks are broken down into smaller, actionable steps. They stress that consistency is vital; routines should be followed regularly to become a natural part of a child's life. By involving children in the creation of their routines, parents can gain buy-in and help kids feel a sense of ownership.
Action Item 2: Teach Problem-Solving and Natural Consequences
The hosts advise against being an enabler. Instead of rushing to "fix" every problem for a child, they suggest allowing them to experience natural consequences (when safe). For example, if a child forgets their jacket, they'll feel cold, which is a powerful lesson. This approach teaches responsibility and shows children that their actions have direct results. The hosts also recommend asking open-ended questions to guide children toward solving their own problems, rather than simply telling them what to do. This helps them develop crucial self-reliance and critical thinking skills.
Action Item 3: Model the Behavior You Want to See
Children are highly observant and learn more from what their parents do than what they say. The final, and perhaps most important, step is to model the discipline and self-control you want to instill in your kids. If a parent constantly flies off the handle or handles conflict with anger, their children are likely to adopt similar behaviors. The hosts highlight that children are not their parents' friends and shouldn't be a receptacle for adult problems. By being a stable, respectful, and responsible role model, you create a safe environment and teach your children what it means to be a well-adjusted adult.
ARN Suggested Reading:
Blessings In the Bullshit: A Guided Journal for Finding the BEST In Every Day – by Mark Cardone & Theron Feidt
Full List of Recommended Books: https://www.achieveresultsnow.com/readers-are-leaders
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